Seems that I've learned when peeps get out of a cult, they hang on to one of the bad habits that peeps still hang on to post cult exodus. Gossiping and OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder).
I made a bad mistake in the past, doesn't mean the story remains the same. I've learned about that. But this isn't about me, it's about my wife. Period. She's in a bad situation that is effecting all of us.
You guys learned to gossip about your fellow JWs that results in their disfellowshipping and the gossips continues post DF. Some developed OCD as a result, kissing up the Elder's ass when nosing around other people's business and squeal on them to the elders and gloat when a member gets kicked out of the congregation, all in the name of "keeping the congregation clean" browning points.
I don't do that to people here or anywhere for that matter. Some peeps with OCD have a hard time letting go of people's past and dredge it up however and whenever they can. They just can't let go.
I've already let go and moved on, I suggest the same for everyone else.
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