"....for in the resurection neither do men marry nor are women given in marriage, but as are angels in heaven." Matt 22:30
i know that the interpretation of this scripture was a bone of contention with some JWs. i always believed that Jesus was referring to those resurrected to heaven, because if the WTS could apply the rule that the partaking of the bread and wine was for the anointed only, why couldnt that rule apply to this scripture? i felt the scripture was inconsistent in how it was applied compared to partaking of the bread and wine.
i also felt this put unnecessary stress on those who were widowed.