Hi Scully, Mulan and everyone. This is why this subject really strikes a nerve....
"By obeying the elders you show obedience to God and his "arrangement"---That's the biggest slander that has there ever been said. Whether male or female any person who has a disagreement with the power hungry, arrogant elders should definitely speak up and not let them think thay have some sort of power over you.
The elders in this congregation are all cowards, and I suspect they wouldn't know how to handle that. They definitely do not appreciate an aggressive woman who will actually confront them.