Just be disfellowshipped - need to chat

by CraigSA 33 Replies latest jw friends

  • Vivamus
    Vivamus

    Welcome Craig!

    This is a great place, and I'm sure you'll find lots of support, and answers here.

    I too am DF, and trust me, it takes some time, but you will get over it.

  • Iwasyoungonce
    Iwasyoungonce

    Craig,

    I know that being df'ed is a bad thing from inside the KH. So for that I am sorry for the hardness that you will find from the people that you once cared for. My best advice is that when someone says that I will love you "if" that is not love that is control.

    I hope you will consider reading some of the material on abusive or high control groups. The relgion you were a part of is only one of many. Learning how and why people are compelled to control might help you to be a better person. It might also help you to understand why some people do such bizzare things to try and control each other.

    Take care, and my email is open if you need to talk.

    Jay

  • Scarlet
    Scarlet

    I am so sorry Craig. If you need anything let me know.

  • freedom96
    freedom96

    Hi-

    Welcome to the board. Hope you enjoy yourself here.

  • josephus
    josephus

    welcome bud.

    were very nice people really.

    josephus

    ps and were right!

  • CBeMe
    CBeMe

    Welcome Craig!!

    CBeMe

  • Shakita
    Shakita

    Craig:

    Mrs. Shakita

  • shera
    shera

    Hello and welcome to the board.

    You have come to the right place...

  • Beans
    Beans

    Welcome!

    You won't be shunned here!

    Beans

  • JT
    JT

    if one is going to be DFed - then the year 2002 is the best time in the world

    you are in the best of situations for any Dfed jw- unlike some of the old timers here who were DFed before the INTERNET- THEY CAUGHT MENTAL HELL

    ask them about it they will share it with you

    never have someone like yourself been DFed and in less than 24hours you have tons of folks there as support - many of our oldtimers didn't have that and i have the greatest respect for those gals and guys who left when there was no such thing as a "Support group"

    so you will be fine whether in Africa or NC -USA you will be just fine

    we will support you my man

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