When You Were Engaged, Did You Do It??? (page 2)

Scarlet

We were rounding third and heading for home but waited for the wedding day on that one.

breeze

I didn't do it....

I have no comment.....

I know nothing....

No I never did it befor I was married in the kingdom hall - But we did it heaps outside the kingom hall. I would definatly do it now in the kingom hall. Truth is I just never thought of it at the time. But I sounds like fun.

Anyone any ideas how we can get into the kindom hall to do it - May be a bit hard during a meeting but I'm willing to try

ozziepost

Fair suck of the sav, Minimus! Fair crack of the whip, mate!

You want all these confessions and you say nuffin'.

You ain't trying to form a JC, are ya?

Cheers, Ozzie

SYN

My conscience has been bothered ever since that incident with the Wildebeest, which is why my lovely Fiance and I never got married in the Hall.

Good enough for you Minimus?

Say, you never tell us anything about yourself, as Ozzie mentioned! SPILL THEM BEANS!

Celia

How would you know if you and your future mate are compatible if you don't do it before the wedding night ? Better have a try, or two, or three.....

minimus

I was a good boy,pretty good, at least. But you'd be surprised how many couples, after they got married, would confess to fornication, because now they were experiencing difficulties and felt they were being punished. I understand that most of the couples that I married, also,"did it"..It shows you how human nature really is .Those preliminary questions that the brother that marries the couple is supposed to ask means nada........I usually tell ya everything, just a little bit later, that's all.

Edited by - minimus on 14 December 2002 9:25:58

dmouse

Nope, I was a goody too. Huh! I didn't even do it on my wedding night! It took us three days to get ourselves relaxed enough to try, after so long suppressing our sexual feelings. When we married in the Hall I was 22 and my wife was 26 and both virgins and incredibly niave.

I now realise that my wife and I are not sexually compatable. But it's too late of course.

LB

May be a bit hard during a meeting but I'm willing to try

Seems like if it's hard the battle is won

My son tells me he and his wife didn't do it before marriage. He also says that most of his jw friends screwed each others brains out before marriage.

MsJam

Before we were engaged ...after we were engaged...while I was studying...then on the wedding day he turns to me and says," You realize now that we are married and if we want Jehovah to bless us..we need to tell someone about what we did."

ON OUR WEDDING DAY! Needless to say the wedding night was horrible.I wasn't into it at all.

I put him off until about 5 years later. Of course it was when he was moving up to position. His concience just couldn't take it anymore. It was so humiliating to sit in that little room and talk about personnal things with 2 old men.(ie..what we did,where we did it,how many times,did either one of us have orgasam,was there penatration) I wonder now how it was getting them off.

After that sex just wasn't the same for me. It felt dirty .I used to have nightmares that the elders were somehow watching us.

I'm happy to say that I no longer have that problem.:)It sickens and saddens me to think about all those that are in the same situation I was in years ago.

btw...I was 4 months pregnant with my second child. And we were privately reproved.

JAM

When You Were Engaged, Did You Do It???