OHHHHHH,
You may not get an answer for this question. There must be so many on here that are trying to remain "hidden" because they are not "out" yet, or they have family "still in". It's a rather sensitive area.
This forum is open to active JW's because it discusses JW issues, and opens up an avenue of support and encouragement for those still inside who feel they cannot leave, even though they don't really believe the WTBT dogma any longer. I think you can pretty much figure out by the posts how certain posters are feeling, etc.