overcome by emotion as a parent.......

by scootergirl 25 Replies latest jw friends

  • Robdar
    Robdar
    But robyn they are always your little babies

    Ah Kelsey, you speak the truth. But I can't hold my son and rock him to sleep anymore. And no more lullabyes, no more sweet baby scent when you snuggle close, no more laughter when you nibble their sweet little baby toes, no more seeing life anew and as something to be explored not feared. However, I do still have the joy of unconditional love....

    I miss having a baby around the house and I don't think that my son intends to give me a grandchild to spoil. Sigh.

    Robyn

  • Shakita
    Shakita

    scootergirl:

    You sound like a great Mom! I have a heart full of memories just like that one. The trick is to remember those great times when you get a call from the school principal telling you your child has decided to skip class so he will have detention for the next 2 days!

    Mrs. Shakita(who is waiting for grandchildren for even more wonderful memories!)

  • WildHorses
    WildHorses

    I've had moments like that also. I've also had moments like last night for instances where I was watching a movie about this family who's two children were taken away from them because a vindictive woman told a lie to DSS and said that the mother was abusing her kids and they took them away from her. I felt the pain that woman was going through and I went to my kids rooms and hugged them while they were asleep.

    I can complain so much about my kids at times but if I ever lost them. It would kill me.

  • scootergirl
    scootergirl

    robdar wrote:

    no more sweet baby scent when you snuggle close
    Oh.......there is nothing better than that sweet baby scent! I loved it after my babies got their baths and their hair was all fuzzy.......they would snuggle up all warm. Oh.....the memories!
  • not interested
    not interested

    im gonna have to have one of them thats all there is to it,

    Its a funny thing thoe, when I was married having children was not even a thought, and we both agreed on that, but a few years ago i started getting these feelings, of wanting to be a father, maybe its because im not allowed to see my nephews anymore, maybe its just getting older i dont know,

    sadly i know that where i am in life now its not a option, shoot i have to go through all that "Find the right one" crap first..........but someday

  • LyinEyes
    LyinEyes

    Oh Scooter that was just precious,,,,,,,made my heart melt too.

    I have those moments too. Especially this year, I have watched my oldest son, become more of a man instead of "my little man", cried at his success at school and football.

    My daughter, is growing into a young woman, 9 yrs old but not a baby anymore. She is so beautiful when she laughs , I watch her play dolls and remember how I used to do the same things she does.

    My youngest son, still crawls into my bed in the early mornings and puts his hand around my neck or hair and is so still and peaceful I just stare at him.

    The other day I watched a family video of when my kids were 9, 3, and 1. I cried like a baby to hear Jakes voice sounding like he was on helium, his voice was like a little boy, god he was a little boy. He was dancing and would kill me if anyone ever sees that video now. He has grown so much.

    My daughter Kelly was little shirley temple with the chubby checks and baby knees...... she would make these faces for me ,,,,,, I would tell her do sad eyes and she would pucker her lip out and pretend to cry, or happy eyes, and she would smile real big and bat her eyes.

    My little son, Chance was a baby, only 1 yr old and his dark brown eyes twinkled, he was playing with a set of keys, which i had forgotten he loved so much. Not baby keys, but the keys his Pappaw made up for him, of all the keys he didnt use anymore, he even at that age wanted to be just like his pappaw.

    I cried,,,,,,, and cried at how blessed I am as a mother, to watch them grow and thrive. I cried because one day they will not be in the same house with me and I don' tknow what I will do... I guess that is what the teenage years are for,,,,,,,,, so you get sick of them and their smart ass ways, and you are ready for them to hit the road..........lol........ Well I hope they stay around longer than I stayed at home.

  • xenawarrior
    xenawarrior

    ((((((((Scooter))))))) thank you so much for shaing that - gave me goose bumps.

    I've had many of those moments lately. Started when I was taking pictures of my daughter all dressed up for her first Homecoming dance. As the picture taking session was going on with all who were going; I looked at her and saw a woman- no child there and realized how beautiful she is and what a wonderful person she has become. Same thing happened at her birthday party here a few months back. I watched this child of mine and saw how comfortable she is in her own skin and with her friends and how close to the surface the laughter within her is.

    Last year at this time I had casts on both legs and was wheelchair bound and lived in one room of my house for about 8 weeks. On the wall in front of me the entire time is a collage of pictures of my daughter, from day one to age 3. During that 8 weeks, I spent a great deal of time gazing at those pictures and re-living in my mind the moments that were represented in them. It was one of the greatest things I experienced during that 8 weeks because I was visualizing it so well and it was such a great experience that I can now bring up those moments in my mind at will. That is a wonderful thing for me because it brings a smile to my face and sometimes it's hard to remember them being so little.

    Ahhhh, that baby smell. Some friends of mine stopped by a couple of weeks ago with their baby and holding him with those legs kicking constantly and that wonderful baby smell was wonderful!! Made me almost want to.............. give him back to his mom when it was time to go!!! LOL.

    Thanks for sharing these stories fellow parents!!!

    XW

  • Solace
    Solace

    Awwww....

    I know exactly what you mean Scoot.

    My 5 year old son gets to me all the time. He is such a deep thinker for his age. He even says things like, "Mom, I dont want you to die before me because I will miss you too much" can you imagine? I just about died right there on the spot.

    XW,

    Have another! You are young and energetic!

    Edited by - heaven on 19 December 2002 22:44:1

  • xenawarrior
    xenawarrior

    Heaven!!!!!

    Bite your tongue!!!

    LOL -

    XW

  • LDH
    LDH

    And just think, Scooter.

    NEVER will we have to tell our children that we would chose a religion over them!!!!

    Yes, I know well what you mean. Yes, we can stop the cycle!!!

    Lisa

    Mother Class

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