I had only two at a JC when I was 14. (for once, the JC was actually for a good reason). There were only two elders and they weren't brutal at all. In fact, they were real gentle with me. I think because they knew that my life had not been a picnic, that they took pity on me, which allowed me to find a wife as a JW, leave myself, then convince the wife, then parents and siblings to leave.........
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