Hi, Elhoim. Welcome.
Do you know any of the particulars about the congregation being forced out of their KH? I never heard of anything like this before, but I've been in the beautiful world (i.e., out of the org) since 1979.
I have only one remaining JW relative, my niece. My sister and my other niece are hangers-on who want to have their cake and eat it too, so to speak. My niece has chosen depression and mental disability as her route of evading her burdens. When my mother was alive, she managed to stay very sick as well. Being "weak" while being articulate with dubspeak works well for my folks.
I'm sorry to hear about your sister, and particularly about the situation with the children. Being a pedophile who is articulate with dubspeak apparently works well also.
Keep coming back! Happy New Year!
SandraC