Expat,
Your last comment brought tears to my eyes.
As far church and state, they are to remain sepearate, imo. I know in Florida a couple years ago they had a moment of silence, which the students may use anyway they see fit. Some prayed but it was to be used as they saw fit.
My daughter's teacher is a very vocal christian. On the first parent night we had(which was 3 months into the school year) she told all of us parents she teaches christianity to the children in her class. If we had a problem, we were to take it up with the school board. She has been doing this for 26 years, and noone is going to stop her.
I decided to sit back and wait. Actually it has helped start some good conversations with my daughter. Which she in turns shares with her teacher, which I am sure she is not happy about, heehee.
Such as recently my daughter talking about heaven, to me, including giving me details about it. I asked her, "Why do you believe in heaven?" Her response was, "Mrs.**** says it is true" Ok, so how do I tell her that when Mrs. **** teaches her lessons on the alphabet she should believe, but when she tell her about heaven she should decide for herself? Well I handled it the best I could and actually turned into over an hour of discussion. Which I loved
My point is, there are some basic truths in this world, such as reading, writing, and 'rithmatic. Everything else should be decided at home. Especially for our children. I think as adults we are better able to handle the concept of deciding for ourselves. But small children take what an adult says as truth.
I have no problem with a moment of silence in school. I think it is good to have time to reflect on our thoughts. Sometimes school is the only place children recive a reprieve from their battered lives. But to demand that church and state be combined, well that goes against everything America stands for. And the reason it was started in the first place.
wendy