I can't wait for tomorrow!...NOT

Golden Girl

I get to go to the dentist at 8 am. (Not my favorite time). Then we get to have visitors!..My lovely JW Mother in law .and her JW daughter and JW son in law from NY are coming to visit for the second time this week! They suggested me cancelling my dentist appt. and I though that was real nice. BUT..I would rather be at the dentist!

The sister and brother in law were here Monday and it wasn't too bad. But I mentioned meeting someone they knew here and their first reaction was.."That's why they quit going to the meetings!".

It was all I could do to not laugh!

I tried to smooth it over saying it was a site for both JW's and non JW's. We discussed the cutbacks on printing by the WTBTS and then I asked him if they sold Bethel..My mistake..I got that idea in my head and I don't think they did. So I guess he thinks I am stupid again... Live and learn. Well..we shall see how tomorrow goes. My very outspoken Mother in law is visiting for the fist time since I wrote her and told her what I thought!. ( She was bad mouthing everything I did for hubby last time she was here.) When she thought we might move by her to help her she was ever so sweet to me. Then hubby got sick and she realized it was over..she got mean again.

I am going through enough right now with hubby and his Cancer. I don't need her doing that to me . I need encouragement..not put downs. So we shall see how tomorrow goes!....They are coming to see hubby..they don't even need to speak to me!..why don't they just shun me..?

He doesn't need to hear all that junk!. ...Hope I don't have to write another letter!

Snoozy.....aka...Golden Girl

COMF

Snoozy, practice saying these lines. They can come in mighty handy sometimes.

1. Shut up.
2. Shut the hell up and get out of my house. Now.
3. Shut up that stupid, mindless, totally self-centered garbage you're spouting.
4. You seem to be having trouble keeping your mouth shut. I can help you with that. Shall I?

Flip

GG, on top of everything else, I hope your JWMIL isn't still pushing that Noni Juice nonsense at the expense of your hubby getting proper care.

Best wishes of strength to you, your husband and persons on your side during these difficult times.

Golden Girl

I actually did tell my MIL to shut up one time.Which took a lot for me to do that. I was always taught to respect your elders! The kids and I skipped a meeting and went roller skating one night. When we got home...she was waiting in the driveway (She lived next door!) with her bible open and she was reading from it and trying to follow me in the house..I told her to get out and shut up... then I closed the door. We moved not to long after that!.

It wasn't like I was taking them to a bar or strip club! There were lots of witnsses there!..I guess we were all playing hookey!..I was starting to be sooo evil!

And yes..he is still getting the Noni juice. The Drs have used all their drugs they can. He found out he was taking too much of it though. So now it is only about $500. a month instead of $1,000. All I can say is it better work...or someone is getting another letter!!!!!!!!!
Is it tomorrow yet????

Snoozy..aka..Golden Girl

Xandria

Hum Snoozy,

Dentist, drills, etc or the JW family visit... hum. At least with the Dentist you do get drugs to help you through.....

Some-times you wish you can pull an Bill Crystal.. " Do you wanna FRESH one do you ?!" "Juuussst open your mouth one more time.. " ( Xandria reverts back to her "pleasant self " ) lol.

Damn frigging fruitty religion... would give any one fits. When I feel close to losing it w/ my family.. I mentally hum ( now thanks to brummie's thread asking what you going to do) I hum to the theme of cops.

"B-aaad dubs, bad dubs whatcha gonna do-oo... whatcha' gonna do when they come for YOU ?!"

The case gave no blockaideee.. the dee da da daaa.... ( at lost for the other words to this) lol.

When I think of you, I hear the song under pressure. So when you feel it coming on.. don't hide your feelings in deference to them any more because they should not be dishing it out right now.

You are completely right in telling them to ( sounds like duck) off.

Take care,

Xandria <who believes every duck has it's day. ,o0( where is dirty Harry when you need him ?)

ugg

make them brownies with alot of laxative in them.....get them good and sick,,,make them stay away,,,or at least shorten their visit!!!!!! ((((((((((((((((((((((((((( golden girl ))))))))))))))))))))))

pettygrudger

((golden girl)) - at least the one visit went half-way decent - but if m-i-law gets testy - just tell her you will not tolerate being abused in your home - regardless of the situation.

Is there anyone that can be with you during this woman's visit? There is strength in numbers - perhaps one of the grandkids can keep that woman at bay!

Shakita

Hang in there Golden Girl!

If your nasty Mother-in-law gives you any lip, give her one of these Some people just need a good slug sometimes!

Mrs. Shakita

imanaliento

sorry to hear of your husband and what he has to go through.

If your in-laws get out of line, let your husband know that you or he will talk to them, telling them you will not put up with that in Your House if they don't like it suggest a hotel because you can not deal with any more stress. it's not good for either of you.

good luck

Golden Girl

This is way too funny! Someone suggested putting X lax in brownies...My sister in law called after I got back from the dentist. She said her hubby had "Diarrhea!" and they couldn't come.Is that too much or what!. They are only here for a week so the only other time they can come is Friday or Saturday! God does work miracles!..

And as far as a motel goes..I told hubby I would be perfectly happy to leave and stay at the corner motel until they left...but he has gotten worse so he really wants me to stay with him. . I'm the only one that can help him...I can tell his reactions are slowing down and so is his thought process.

The dentist thinks I'm royalty! He wants to "Crown Me!".Isn't he sweet...I told him he said that 3 years ago!..And the tooth is just fine still!..I'm in no hurry to have it chopped off and covered up with inferior materials.....

Thanks for your replies! I will update this weekend!

Golden Girl..aka..Snoozy

I can't wait for tomorrow!...NOT

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