Heres is the "approved" JW living standard.
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Read the Bible and Watchtower. Make sure that you do this, this is important above all else. Ignore everything else that goes on around you, stick your nose in that Kingdom Ministry pamphlet and never let your eyes appear over the edge lest Satan stumbles you and you must be subject to summary social execution!
Go in service. You are a sheep and you must do as you are told and you are told to go and make/find more sheep to feed "the Organisation." Nevermind us investing in military hardware and conspiring with the UN our sworn enemy. Look the other way as we launder drug money in our billion dollar a year industry of spreading ignorance and intolerance.
Work maybe, but making a living for yourself and planning retirement is secondary to reading the Watchtower and evangelising to people that hate your guts and laugh at you.
You cannot have sex. If you do, you must place a bag over your heads and grope around in the dark. Forget about sexual satifaction, you are sheep and you are to breed only for the purposes of manufacturing more sheep. (Its amazing Witnesses breed as much as they do. I guess Darwin was wrong about the "biological dead end".)
You may not dance because that vaguely reminds the "Ancient" Governing Body of sex in which we must place bags over our heads. If you are caught dancing you could be subject to summary social execution by "disfellowshipping". You will also be publicly humiliated if you are caught holding hands, French kissing in public, or other forms of open affections. *horrors*
You must also have a virgin fetus fetish in where we must create massive curiostiy in our youth with the "forbidden sex". When they get curious about it we must punish them and publicly humiliate them so that they will never touch their "dirty" parts ever again. Nevermind that old dirty Elder Jones is fondling your sons and daughters when they go to the latrine. You don't see Bro so-and-so having gay sex with that goat over there... turn your eyes! No! Dont tell the cops! That would bring "reproach" upon the organisation! We can't have that! We would be hypocrits and no better than the Catholic Church if we did that!
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I hope that clarifies some.