I know of a guy (not gay but guy - better be carefull with the letters here ....) who had not been at meetings for 10 years or so, not since he was a teenager, but then started attending because he wanted to "get back". Because he was co-habiting with a girl, he was then df'ed. Not the best of welcomes, perhaps ............
We experienced this irony, also. Both my husband and I had been inactive for awhile. He was totally inactive, and I was sporadic.
During this period of time, I repeatedly asked for help for both myself and my husband, with no response. Then, we finally decided to put forth a major effect to re-activate ourselves, and were studying again and attending most meetings.
However, my husband had started smoking again during his 10+ inactive years, and he was unable to meet their 30-day deadline for quitting, so he was disfellowshipped within months of his trying to go back.
This whole situation pushed ME over the edge, and I was so disgusted I never went back. Now I know too much and would never consider going back again. It has been about 18 years now, and no elder has ever visited me during this time. I hope that they don't try doing anything at this point in time.