Oh Joy, I was so sorry to see this thread.
I only came back for a much needed break from all the sadness and stress of my fathers' sudden passing to try and stop my mind dwelling on thoughts that are spinning around in my head and saw this...I can't believe it...
My heart aches for you today, I wish I could be of more use to you by being closer, to help you with some of the things you don't want to do. I hope it was peaceful for him and that you are coping today. My email is
[email protected] if you want it.
all my love to you both, the advice I received here last week comforted me and helped me keep going when I wanted to curl up and disappear;
try and get lots of sleep Joy (pills if you have to) talk to people if you can and be kind to your self, you have a lot to cope with,don't forget to eat- it's so easy to forget; and go out for a massage or have lots of deep, hot,relaxing baths.
I wish I could be more help.
All my love to you both; i'll be thinking of you
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