I would stay away from the Northwest......the west coast all together, it's too expensive.
Metro NY is too expensive as well, but of course the best on place on earth to live
PA is nice, and CHEAP!
You can rent an apartment for a couple of hundred bucks a month. My wife works with the mentally challenged in Scranton, PA
She can get you all the info you need, maybe even a job if you're into that kind of thing.
Portland Maine is about a nice as it gets, and it's not that expensive, If you stick to the suburbs. You can live right near the ocean for next to nothing. I'm not real sure about the job thing though, but Boston is only like an hour away, and I 'think' they have a commuter train now between Boston/Portland.
We'll be up there in the next couple of weeks, if you need info we can get it for you. Last I knew you could rent an apartment by the week, that was real common a few years ago, which makes it MUCH easier to move in.
If you come to the Northeast, I can help you out with info. I might even be able to put you to work, trouble is, I don't provide health insurance, and you'll need it for the little one. ALTHOUGH, PA has an awesome health insurance deal for both Children and Adults. I don't know the specifics, but I saw it on the news. It's a new deal, they want everyone in the state covered, no matter what your financial status is. So, if you make good money, but your job doesn't give you insurance, you can join the state 'co-op' I guess you'd call it, for really good rates. And then if you don't make really good money, it goes on a sliding fee scale. Whatever it is, it's supposed to be real good.
Anyway, that's my 2 cents :)
If you need anything, my email is open