I think they know about me here, too. All you need to do is post a general threat to any who want to harass you (nothing illegal, of course), such as telling them you'll call their employers and get them fired for being bigots, harassers, peeping toms, stalkers, etc.
That you'll find every one of their relatives who aren't JWs, call them and make them aware of the elders bad behavior, and make sure that they never speak to them again.
If they want to make you play by their rules, then THEY have to play by their rules. If they want you to lose your family ties, then they will lose their families ties.
So far, it's worked for me!:)
ash