Hey monk,
I just wanted to say, I am glad you are happy and can finally be your true self. (Say hi to your partner for me)
The gay issue is something that is close to my heart because of an aunt that I have. She is still a JW and can't be truely happy with a mate. She is in her late 40's and is still alone (by alone I mean a mate). Everyone in my family that isn't JW knows she is gay. She would NEVER admit that, but you just know. I am very sad for her because she can't be her true self.
I am glad you found a mate and that you can be you.
((((((monk)))))))
Jes