I have kept quiet so far but I feel compeled to speak. I am a member of a minority as well. I am hispanic, but in fact I do have african in my ancestry.
Earlier you said something about how if people from other countries are going to live in the U.S they should be made to know the language. Consider the following....
Not long ago my mother was in a grocery store doing some shopping. She was speaking in Spanish to her sister over her cell phone when a lady came up to her and asked "Excuse me miss, what language are you speaking?" My mom proceded to tell her that she was speaking spanish. This ladies reply was "Well you are in America now and you need to speak English if you are going to live in America". Needless to say, my mother (who speaks perfect English) was shocked and actually came home crying because of it.
Francois, is this what you really believe? If so may I point out that MY family has served this country as well, MY family had died for the rights that ALL Americans enjoy today. And most of all, did you even know that English is not the official language of the U.S? There is none.
Regarding your comment to SP about Cubans in Florida. I can assure you that had if some Cubans or Puertoricans heard the conversation (if you can really call it that) between you two, it would have been you that would be picking himself off the ground...... if that.
I will not sit by and have a friend trashed simply because of her race. I would honestly ask you to simply drop this. Do not bring it up again. Think whatever you are going to think but there is no reason for you to have taken this as far as you have.
Eric