We're asking you to up your game You're a poster who has discussions and contributes.
What we are pushing you to do is improve your logic and rhetoric. If you come to a conclusion based off of faultyl logic, a poorly thought out argument or even untrue facts, then your powers of convincing others are weak.
You can do better. If I didn't think you were capable of it, I wouldn't be interacting with you at all.
I had difficulty making a coherent argument when I first began posting here and I was called out. In a factual way and without a lot of cheerleading. But, I kept listening and learning.
Learning about logical fallacies helped me clean up my rhetoric to make better arguments.
We're not trying to be nasty. We're pointing out where you can improve. If I thought it all would go over your head, I wouldn't bother.
I believe if you researched common Logical Fallacies, you would improve your arguments very quickly. Best of luck!