I'm glad this thread about "counsel" was resurrected.
In reading all the new posts as well as the old ones (mine included), I am just struck by the insanity of it all. In the Jehovah's Witness religion, every idiot there feels they have the right to "counsel" somebody. Which means, when translated into English, they can give unsolicited remarks and their 2 cents worth about anything pertaining to a person.
This includes any aspect of a person's appearance; their actions and what they say (no colorful words); a person's home or vehicle; their occupation; their education; how intelligently they speak (don't want to stumble any illiterates there); what they eat (I was told I shouldn't eat Devil Dogs); their friends and who they should or should not be seen with; their recreation which includes vacation and what movies they see; how they should react or behave around so-called worldly people (including relatives) whether at work or other occasions, etc.
Maybe I left a few things out but you all get the picture. These are not just "rules" from the religion..These are views of meddling and jealous individuals who will end up making your life miserable if you don't act on or follow their unwanted advice.