Sorry folks that I used this thread space to voice my exileration but Ive been reading everyones threads for more than a month now and have never been able to post anything, Many folks have tried to help me with cyber info to figure out what the problem was to no avail and today somehow or other I figured it out myself and now I am posting... see!? Oh yeah, I don't think anyone should discipline anyone else's kids, if you have a problem with a kid bring it to the parent's attention and only they should do any disciplining, especially should Step parents NOT disicpline their Step kids,I feel that is the job of the natural parents and no one else. Resentment and anger will result...Ive been there!