People need to learn to not become emotionally attached to a situation. It’s too easy for others to control you.
One elder I knew carried a resignation letter in his briefcase. He was a good elder but wouldn’t allow himself to be manipulated.
When things got heated he would pull out the letter and offer to hand it to the PO. That would end the conversation and he would remain an elder.
Going through any kind of meeting as depicted in this video is demeaning, humiliating and likely to cause life long trauma.
Pimo elders. Have your resignation letter ready to hand to them.