If I am reading this right, our dear old friend Grace ,who posted under the name of Mouthy is now in serious decline. We always affectionately called her the forum granny. She reached out to a lot of people. Of her two daughters , one is apparently in touch with her but the one that is still a J W shuns her... Have I got that right ? I can be a bit thick.....
A regular dub and elder's wife would not dare to follow this board. For them the Sun shines out of JW.borg....
I understand the concept of expelling the lawbreaker from the cong.membership,but to go as far as shunning your close family is just wrong and the invention of men, not Christ. Sadly the WTS dose not seem to be relenting on this anytime soon. See this from study WT Feb 2016 :
A conflict of loyalties may arise when a close relative is disfellowshipped. For example, a sister named Anne [1]received a telephone call from her disfellowshipped mother. The mother wanted to visit Anne because she felt pained by her isolation from the family. Anne was deeply distressed by the plea and promised to reply by letter. Before writing, she reviewed Bible principles. (1 Cor. 5:11;2 John 9-11) Anne wrote and kindly reminded her mother that she had cut herself off from the family by her wrongdoing and unrepentant attitude. “The only way you can relieve your pain is by returning to Jehovah,” Anne wrote.—Jas. 4:8