It's great to see all the familiar posters as I've been reading for the last few hours. Still offering great advice and help. Awesome job. I tried logging in sometimes over the last year and a half or so, but I didn't have my password on the old account. I finally thought about it and I am not the same shell shocked and comatose guy I was before. I'm just a happy and well adjusted normal person for the most part. I still deal with the JW issues with family that is in, but I'm now a happy and well adjusted person. So, I just decided to change my name and add a new account.
My first post as comatose was like so many of the the recent ones I read from the last couple days. People confused and desperate, seeking help and understanding in a very bad place. So many of you helped me past all that. Thank you so much!
Whats new with me?
Divorced for a year. Yeah, she left too... But, in the end getting DF'd drove a wedge that didn't heal. However, as bad as it feels admitting this, I am happier now. I didn't even realize how bad what I had come to think of as normal actually was. The divorce went smoothly as it could. Was done in a few months and we didn't fight over anything much. We are now 1 year out and we are good co-parents. We are not friends, but we get along and we do everything we can for our daughter. The kiddo handled it amazing. Probably because of how hard we worked on that happening. Single. Enjoying dating some. Enjoying being single for now, but openminded about the future.
Life is much better, happier, and simpler now. I'm content.
Hello to everyone and thank you for all your help over the years!