INTELLECTUAL HONESTY:
"I am willing to be wrong when facts go against cherished beliefs."
ARE YOU WILLING TO BE WRONG?
Without a willingness to be wrong (who can always be right?) no room for personal growth is possible.
You can't know what you don't allow yourself to see.
MAN'S GREATEST ACHIEVEMENT IS PROGRESS THROUGH SELF-EXAMINATION
1. LISTEN TO PEOPLE with whom you disagree.
Really listen.
Why? Because you were once a Jehovah's Witness and had all the answers and you were dead wrong.
You tuned out what others said when they objected to your certainty.
WHAT IF YOU HAD DONE YOUR OPPOSITION RESEARCH with an OPEN MIND?
Still-in JW's refuse to hear what opposers say by becoming automatically contemptuous and suspicious. We cannot afford to be deaf, blind and stupid the second time. You have nothing to lose but your smug complacency by listening to your opponents.
2. TEST YOUR SOURCES.
When we were Jehovah's Witnesses we thought the Bible (and ultimately, Jehovah) was our source of knowledge, truth, and wisdom.
WE WERE WRONG!
It was all coming from FALSE PROPHETS pretending to channel Truth from heaven. Had we listened to CRITICAL ANALYSIS by mainstream Bible Scholars (instead of letting the GB do it for us) we'd quickly have become alert to many problems with authenticity in the scriptures themselves.
A red flag wake-up call!
3. BECOME A RATIONAL, NON-CYNICAL SKEPTIC.
As Jehovah's Witnesses, we sneered at human society except for the New World society.
Why?
JW's are taught to be untrusting, suspicious, dark-minded and smug.
However, a rational thinker looks for data, facts, and solutions from testable and peer-reviewed sources without bias.
4. STUDY CONTROVERSIAL SUBJECTS by reading opposites sides of the debate.
Jehovah's Witnesses reading and viewing material is highly censored.
The label of "worldly" poisons research.
Independent thinking is forbidden.
Without any testing counter-arguments, Jw's become vulnerable to emotional manipulation.
Quotations published in JW reading materials are heavily filtered, clipped and rendered corrupt so contrary viewpoints by neutral authorities will not reach us with potency.
When we study any topic, we need to know what opponents set forward, to examine the data set, and become aware of any weakness on BOTH sides of issues.
5. SELF-AWARENESS of your limits.
Face the fact you are flawed, subjective, ill-informed, unskilled and over-confident while at the same time thinking you are objective, intelligent, and smarter than most others.
THAT'S HUMAN NATURE.
Get over yourself! As Jehovah's Witnesses, we considered ourselves as sharp, quick-minded experts on absolute truth. We were dead wrong!
But old habits die hard.
Cultivate humility to be aware of just how dumb being a JW has made you!
Without humility no persona can learn. Your opinion is important to YOU but everybody else thinks you're an idiot.
They are probably partially right some of the time
6. LEAVE ROOM FOR DOUBT.
Have you ever met a JW Elder who left any room for doubt that what he was saying was the be-all and end-all of knowledge?
Weren't you that way at one time?
Next time you offer an opinion, try ending your sentence with room for doubt.
"Your mileage may vary, of course" is a phrase I try to cultivate.
Invite others to sharpen your remarks with additional and perhaps more accurate commentary.
"That's my view--where am I going wrong?"
If you cocksure--you shut out the opportunity to receive correction from smarter people.
Doubt your facts and you'll seldom end up wrong.
If you are skilled at debate it is an especially easy trap to fall into sounding like you are an encyclopedia of wisdom when actually you're only a deft counterpuncher.
I personally have struggled with my "know-it-all" sounding tone from day one. The tremendous JW feeling of being ABSOLUTELY INFORMED is a tough (bad) habit to expunge. Feeling "right" is no guarantee of anything.
7. Differentiate between HOPE and FAITH and you'll avoid ignorance and heartbreak.
Hope offers a positive and confident mental attitude which reassures an outcome leaving room for the possibility things won't turn out.
Faith fosters a delusional dependence on wishful thinking which can destroy you when it falls apart.
As Jehovah's Witnesses, we discovered this in 1975!
Read the following quotation. Gasp at the insanity of what is being offered to millions of Jehovah's Witnesses looking forward to 1975.
8. AVOID PERSONAL ATTACKS and rely on facts.
Jehovah's Witness' first line of defense against their enemies is to label them "mentally diseased", wicked, Satanic, worldly and Apostate.
Instead of rationally listing objections and methodically offering counter-proofs, the Governing Body exposes themselves as weak, dishonest and tyrannical.
If you are on the side of genuine truth, you should be able to defeat wrong statements with sources factually accurate.
You know an opponent is out of ammunition as soon as they revert to name-calling.
A dishonest debate is the attempt to shut down two-way discourse by a pejorative label. Look for the word "ridiculous" because it can often reveal an empty rebuttal.
9. LOGIC is essentially a test of NON-CONTRADICTION.
Jehovah's Witness Truth is crippled by constantly changing absolutes.
"New LIght" means the "Old Light" was mistaken.
Drunks, the Blind, and lost campers are in good company with the Governing Body.
Science is provisional as it constantly seeks tests of the falsifiable principle. For a theory to be "scientific" it must provide a means of being demonstrated false.
"All Swans are White" is disproved by even one Black Swan.
Jehovah's Witness' doctrine has been erased and redrafted WITHOUT ANY MEMBERS being provided information why it was wrong.
Definite statements have been contradicted by non-events predicted yet never coming to pass.
"Because we say so" and "Just Trust Us" and "Remain Loyal" are slogans used as the smokescreen to hide how dead wrong Watchtower "Truth" always is in the long run.
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Having no clear view of alternatives, Jehovah's Witnesses are blinded.
A smug, self-assured attitude has made them closed off to the possibility of being self-deceived.
Refusing to open themselves up to the possibility of being wrong, they refuse to self-examine for intellectual dishonesty.
Members of this religion end up very depressed, nervous, fearful and blocked from their human potential to lead healthy and happy lives in mainstream society.
No progress is possible for JW's until they become humble enough to admit to being wrong when the facts go against them.
As stated in the outset:
INTELLECTUAL HONESTY:
"I am willing to be wrong when facts go against cherished beliefs."
ARE YOU WILLING TO BE WRONG?