Thanks for starting this thread Barb.
The "confidential" :) letter to Elders today seems to reflect many of the abuse issues brought up by the USA and European authorities.
Highlighted section from the Atlantis post:
"WHAT IF A BAPTIZED MINOR (UNDER 18 YEARS OF AGE) BECOMES INVOLVED IN
SERIOUS WRONGDOING?
8. When a baptized minor becomes involved in serious wrongdoing, two elders (not a committee) will meet with him along with his Christian parent(s) or legal guardian(s). The elders
will exercise patience as they work with the parents to understand the minor’s attitude. They
will also find out what steps the parents have taken to assist their child.
9. If the minor has a good attitude and the parents have the matter in hand, the two elders
may determine that it is not necessary for the minor and his Christian parent(s) or legal
guardian(s) to meet with a committee. The elders will check with the parents periodically to
ensure that the minor is receiving needed spiritual assistance.
10. If the minor’s wrongdoing is widely known or likely to become known, the following brief
announcement may be made to the congregation: “A matter involving [name of person] has
been handled by the elders.” Also, the two elders may impose some temporary restrictions,
such as not commenting at meetings and not caring for student assignments on the midweek
meeting. As the individual makes a spiritual recovery, the temporary restrictions should be
removed by the two elders without delay.
11. If the minor persists in a wrong course despite the assistance offered by two elders and
his Christian parent(s) or legal guardian(s), a committee will meet with the minor and his
Christian parent(s) or legal guardian(s). If the minor is unrepentant, he would be removed
from the congregation.
12. What about minors who are currently disfellowshipped? The committee involved
with the disfellowshipping can meet with the minor and his Christian parent(s) or legal guardian(s) to see how the minor is doing. If the minor has abandoned his sinful course and has
a good attitude and if the parent(s) or legal guardian(s) have the matter in hand, an announcement can be made that the minor has been reinstated. The elders would impose
temporary restrictions, such as not commenting at meetings and not caring for student assignments on the midweek meeting. Thereafter, two elders from the committee will monitor
the minor’s spiritual progress so that the restrictions may be removed in keeping with his
spiritual progress. If the minor is an apostate or is promoting serious wrongdoing, the committee would not meet with the minor and his Christian parent(s) or legal guardian(s). If the
minor was disfellowshipped by a committee in another congregation, the elders should follow the direction in the Shepherd book, chapter 19, paragraphs 13-16.
13. What about individuals who were disfellowshipped as minors but who are now
adults? Such ones can be visited as the elders reach out to disfellowshipped ones."