dear sandy,
the mistake jws (and many other adherents to various religions) have made is that they have given over their own responsibility to learn, to search, to pray, to question, to an organization or a leader, or someone who is only too willing to lead in a direction in opposition to the Word of God. we CAN'T rely on someone else to prove to us what is truth. we must search for ourselves, we have to keep asking, seeking, knocking. we can't just sit back and wait for divine guidance. we have to do as the bereans did, checking up on the apostle paul, "they received the message with great eagerness and examined the scriptures every day to see if what paul said was true." --acts l7:ll we have to, "test everything. hold on to the good." l thessalonians 5:2l
jws have given up their responsibility. they rely on what "the faithful and discreet slave" tells them to do. they believe blindly. when faced with a choice between bible or watchtower, they choose watchtower. this is absolutely wrong and contrary to what scripture tells to do.
we know there will be false prophets and wolves in sheeps clothing. so we cannot blindly accept what anyone tells us. we have to examine everything. you can't be lazy. it takes work and diligence. but if you do your part, the Lord will certainly do his. He will be there to help you.
my best to you, sandy. nowisee