Dear Nordic:
First of all I am sorry to hear about you and your family are struggling with abuse issues. And it makes me and sad. But you know you are in the right place here for support and to have a understanding of betrayal and abandonment. feelings we all experienced.
I am sorry that the jw site betrayed you. It saddens me to hear that kind of mentality exists. I admire you and your family courage and strength to speak out. Glad it was safe enough for your child taking the risk in sharing the abuse with you. Says alot about you being a good parent. Its a huge piece in healing.
Its a long long row to hoe in healing but to remind you that we are behind you and your family. My hope that you all are getting outside support dealing with these issues in taking care of yourselves. We were taught not to take care of ourselves.
And if its okay with you I would like to burn a red candle for courage and strength for days to follow.
All the Best, Crow Woman