Hey you! Murderers you!

by umbertoecho 14 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • umbertoecho
    umbertoecho

    Hello, people, fellow freaks, thinkers, out-raged ones.

    This is about my lovely wonderful brain dead JW sister and her equally piss weak JW husband and how they treat their own son. My nephew!!

    I don't think he is going to live more than a few months unless a miracle happens.

    He was/is a truly gifted musician with a voice like satin or gravel. His pitch was incredibly varied from the lowest note to the highest. He can play the guitar, is brilliant when playing the electric violin and was going places. His band were signed up with EMI for recordings and a plan to promote them overseas.

    He was born in and raised in, this freak of a religion and I saw one of the thrashings he received from his father at the age of two. It was a practice of the father, to put him in front of the television in order to teach him to sit for an hour without moving from the spot. He was two years of age. I swear to god I did not expect what was to happen the minute that baby tried to stand up. His father came bolting in and hit him so hard he was just one big red welt. That baby was hit all over. Horrifically, he did not cry. I was stunned at the suddenness of this beating. Caught completely off guard as I had no sense this was about to happen.

    Brother in law said it was necessary to do this to teach him to sit still at the meetings. the look on his face was cold, unemotional, almost impassive.

    (hang on, gotta get up I'm shaking with rage, going out for a smoke) .........okay back.

    This was the standard that was set in concrete for the rest of his young life and into the pre-teens. "Spare the rod and spoil the child".

    I had little to do with my JW family from then on for some time as I was off to other parts of Australia and getting on with life. He grew up with his gifts, in spite of this ugly discipline and the heavy burden of WT doctrine force-fed daily, weekly yearly down his throat. Years later, I came back into their lives due to various factors. By then I had my own children ( they grew into beautiful young women )

    He was now baptized, went to all meetings and sublimated his character to the almighty WT and his parents, he did all he could to be better, good, spiritual. He wanted them to love him. He tried to "not play" his ungodly music, but it was a part of him.

    Eventually, he was disfellowshipped for doing his worldly gigs and attracting females. He always attended the meetings, though, he was consistent and believed in all the doctrines, whilst sitting alone in the back of the bloody hall and being shunned by all those whom he grew up with. And so time passed, and whenever I did have contact with "them", they said all was good in their world that the other son was just perfect and was devoted witness and going to be an elder. The other son was just a bad person who had thrown away a perfect future offered to him via WT and Co.

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    I went to see my sister today. I took her shopping and took her home. It was all so civil I felt like smoking a cigar and tossing back some scotch right out of the bottle, while blasting her ears to hell with MY UNHOLY MUSIC. Back at her place now, horrible husband there and I'm still behaving..............Until, this young "brother" turned up. I tell you, he has stolen my nephews rightful place, has changed his looks to mirror my nephew. I said..." So, you're trying to look like thier son now, hey? You even dyed your hair I see. Wow, it almost works, but you'll never be J."

    " Show me a photo of J" This aimed at my sister. " What in the hell are you doing?! When was this taken? He's dying, I should know I've lost my Emma, and so many people I've mentored. Why is he not in hospital, why is it you have hidden this from me?!!"

    Sister " Oh well, he just doesn't want help" Me: " Because he's bloody sick, too sick to know how sick he is. He is dangerously depressed and definately suicidal you fool!" Brother in law exits with his new "spiritual son" to another room. Me: "I want his address right now and his number". Sister: " Don't go there too early, he won't be awake". Me: "One day soon, he will never wake up again, he's overdosing on booze and pills. So no, I won't listen to you. I'll kick the door in and drag him out!"

    Me: "Is that creep Anthony your surrogate son now?" I was talking, but a bit aggressively and this caught her off her gaurd...."Yes he is" She said with a beatific smile. "Well good on you guys for killing your son off, for murdering his hopes, gifts and his fucking life!! Enjoy pretending playing happy families with that pornographic pervert, brother Anthony".

    My nephew is so thin I hardly recognise him. This has happened in two months, he can't eat,shakes all over. He vomits constantly, is doctor shopping big time. He is failing rapidly and still goes to the meetings where he is shunned. He has been doing this for ages and they hid it from all the perfect witnesses. I came home and called the elder, but got the wife and let rip,I really let her know how sick this is. I called it a slow and deliberate murder.

  • Tornintwo
    Tornintwo

    Did you find him, can you get him help? I hope and pray you can help him.

    i have 2 teenagers and the longer I'm out the more I realize one of the most reprehensible things about this religion is the way they treat their youths, categorized by guilt, judgement, demand for robotic conformity, rejection....all at the time in their lives they need most support and nurturing.

    having said that we were jw parents and never beat our kids, what that man did to a 2 year old is abuse out and out, he should be locked up, I dread to think what happened when you weren't there. Once again, hoping and praying you can help your poor nephew.

  • Sabin
    Sabin
    BASTARDS! Good for you Umber, telling them how it is. Give your Nephew a big hug from me. I hope you can help him. Let us know how he`s doing. Sabin.
  • Giordano
    Giordano

    umbertoecho This was so difficult to read......... so heart breaking that I just wanted to slink away......... move on to happier stuff.

    Thank you for caring so much about your nephew. Thank you because I remember your story and this must have been so difficult to see how bad off this person is and understanding how desperate his needs are.

    I hope he can get the counseling and medical treatment he needs. It sounds like you will have to be the one that helps him just don't go chasing after him in traffic (a past incident). Stay well and be strong.

    Gio

  • brandnew
    brandnew

    I want to cry, yell, drop a bomb , scream, but most of all......

    Pick that little boy up.....and hug him....and say "SING !!!"....

  • steve2
    steve2

    That is chilling umbertoecho. I so get your powerful reaction - boy do I ever.

    I understand that this young "surrogate" son looks like a replacement for your sister's disfellowhipped son.

    I understand how incensed this makes you feel...yet (I am being careful with my words) that surrogate son is also young and likely indoctrinated.

    Please don't make him feel bad about being caught up in this horrible situation. Looks like he is doing what others expect him to do and is very good at being obedient. He may benefit from your kindness and understanding because any other reaction on your part could be hard for him to handle. Besides, how do you know that he is okay about himself? He may be a good JW actor - many young ones are: they spout the official line, whilst dying on the inside and you'd never know.

    In my view, it is not okay to take your feeling out on someone so young who has never been in the role of an abusive parent and whom you may not fully know.

    That said, I so feel for you and your nephew and hope you can find opportunities to help him!

  • brandnew
    brandnew
    I wanna put a heart too....💙 so there..
  • umbertoecho
    umbertoecho

    I know Anthony very well. He has a loving mother but because she is over weight he is disgusted with her. He is very image driven and was always envious of the skills my nephew had. Other JWs are very aware of this man's style and the way he has been inserting himself into the empty slot that should belong to J.

    Just thought you should know this guy is really slick and very inclined to gloat over the misfortune of others. Anthony is so in love with himself that he can barely pass a mirror without gazing in it. He is 39. Old enough I would say, to get the hell on with his own life instead of ingratiating himself with my Bro-Inlaw and sister. Fancy being a JW and hating one's mother or father because they don't measure up in the looks department!

    I know for a fact that he plays both sides of life. The religious and likeable Jehovah's witness guy looking for the 10/10 sister who will compliment his inflated ego.

    He then goes home and hooks up onto the porn. I don't give a rats "A" about the porn, I care about the slyness, the two faced little creep. Then he goes preaching! Yay!

    I caught him on the computer and he nearly fell off of his chair trying to close everything down. "Too late mate, I saw your preference there, what is it now, 44 cc, 23-inch waist, blond one day, red hair the next". He hates me and I feel all fluffy about that, because if he did like me, it would indicate a serious flaw in my basic nature.

    I think WT could rake in the dough by Advertising a Trade in your disappointing son or daughter, and well get yourself a brand new family. "" A Perfect Child, for the Perfect JW model"... Terms and conditions apply, please send a cheque to..blah blah blah... or use Visa. Price to be announced at the Specials Meeting!!

  • brandnew
    brandnew
    Tee hee .....you said brand new n stuff....☺
  • steve2
    steve2
    Thanks umbertoecho. I had wrongly concluded he was a very young adult. My bad!

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