So, just got off a very emotional, but positive call with my father.
This past weekend, he wanted to give me a call, but I was out of town at a wedding, so he said he'd call me later in the week.
He texted me the Governing Body Update video with the recent changes and said, "I thought you might be interested in some of the changes that were just announced."
I'm tired of self-censorship, so I decided to reply as truthfully and respectfully as I could.
My reply to him:
It's interesting. Seems Morris was holding them back from beginning to make some positive strides towards reform. I hope it continues. Genuinely.
Today, he called me. Asked me what I thought about the changes.
I reiterated that it's a step in the right direction and that I hope more is coming along these lines.
He mentioned my comment about Morris and said he's not sure about that. And I said, "Well, no, of course I don't have proof of it. It's very coincidental, though, that Tony Morris leaves the governing body and within a year all these changes start being made. That's not evidence he was holding them back, but I think it certainly raises the question of that being a possibility."
AND HE AGREED
He let me criticize the organization...I brought up how disfellowshipped people are treated and that I hope they continue to refine that policy because it's very cruel...
It ended up being a nice and respectful conversation about him having hope that I return, but respecting that it's my decision and me telling him I don't want him to have false hope, but I do hope we can have regular talks again.
I closed with: "I have hope that the religion you and mom follow, whether I follow it or not, will continue to make these positive changes and it becomes even more enjoyable for you both."
AND HE THANKED ME FOR THAT STATEMENT.
Look, I know that many of these changes are superficial in comparison to lots of the issues the organization is having. But we should be allowed to be happy that at least SOME things are moving in a more positive direction.
I sincerely do hope that the religion we all have loved ones in becomes less and less intrusive on their lives. I would love for it to happen overnight, but I can live with having it happen little by little over time.
And, want to shout out the activists in Norway. There's no evidence these changes are directly related to their efforts in that country or not, however it's another interesting coincidence. Thank you to those activists for CARING enough to see it through.