He was never a CSA or DV victim so he's not reliving all that past trauma like he wants people to believe
Jabba the Hutt has had one of the softest landings outside the cult as could be imagined considering the fact he went hard apostate and has made no attempt to conceal it. Ray Franz wrote of getting sunburnt and stung by wasps whilst labouring in the hot and humid Alabama summer after he moved out of Bethel. Many others have recalled harassment by elders, family members - even their own children, getting sacked by their JW employers and cast out of everything.
He was universally celebrated and his first child that they could not afford was well cared for by gifts and monetary donations. He monetised this and immediately started setting up his business empire that eventually got so out of hand that him and his entire family were flown to Australia for the week, ostensibly so Lloyd could interview people for the TTATT project. Last autumn he even admitted to skipping a rather important interview so he could take his family to the Sydney Zoo!
As for the loss of his family, he made no secret of his disdain for them in his book. His Dad was chronically unemployed and worthless as a man, husband and father, and his sister had mental and emotional issues. His wife followed him out of the cult, birthed him two children, took his bullshit and swallowed it up whole for an entire decade.She even desired sex from him, even though his body weight was constantly ballooning and regularly looked like he had slept on a park bench.
What the fuck is he complaining about? His wife did not leave him - he left her and set forth conditions that she was to accept if the marriage was to continue. All of this supposed "self-care" is all stemming out of his own bad decisions that had nothing to do with the JWs. Even after the huge loss of support - down 60% - he still is making enough to live a bachelor's lifestyle in Zagreb all for doing nothing more than acting like a total creep and putting out as little content as possible in order to keep the illusion going that he's hard at work.