Crazyguy...... That is shocking. All I can say is that it is not the way that it is intended to happen . My father never took the WT faith. We certainly did not treat him as an outsider, my Mother did her best to accommodate his wishes ,
That quote from the old Wt is horrible . It shows a cold cynical attitude to marriage ,I know it was from 1952 but nevertheless it is wrong. It reduces the marital relationships to almost that of a whore and customer , paying for services rendered .