Finally found a friend I can talk to

by StarTrekAngel 13 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • StarTrekAngel
    StarTrekAngel

    He is an old friend that used to attend my congo. He moved away closer to his parents at some point and we lost touch. For a couple of years I did not hear anything from him. Occasional text messages but nothing in detail. I bumped into him in one of the last assemblies I attended willingly (although I was already mentally out). He showed up to the assembly with his parents and a girlfriend but he was wearing a beard. The next day in the same assembly the beard was gone. We exchanged phone numbers.

    I texted him after and I felt he may have been avoiding me. Figure he know I saw him with a beard and probably thought I was going to preach to him. I texted him again yesterday and we had a long conversation. Turns out he is just as awaken as I am. He is also as trapped as I am... not being able to freely speak up.

    Anyway... I feel is a good relief for both of us to know we are not alone. I also know this community rejoices every time a new "apostate" is discovered.

  • sir82
    sir82

    Be careful never to speak about "apostate" topics if there is another JW within earshot - "2 witnesses" and all that.

    He may seem "safely apostate" now, but people have been known to rotate 180 degrees at a moment's notice. If he decides to "return to momma", and another JW has heard what you talk about, they could go after you.

  • StarTrekAngel
    StarTrekAngel

    I know... it is always a calculated risk. Never the less, he is pretty far out at the moment and while he is shocked by the ARC for example, he did not know the UK was headed in the same direction. So he is terribly shaken by this but he has not yet heard it all.

  • freddo
    freddo

    So why did he shave his beard? There must be some desire on his part to be compliant to jw social mores?

  • StarTrekAngel
    StarTrekAngel

    Having known him and his relationship with his dad for a while, I assume his dad got after him for showing up like that. For not having shown respect for those around him regardless of what he believes. Not that I agree with such stand, just saying that most likely this is where it came from.

    No different than what many of us do to stay under the radar. He is a bit more pushy than I am though.

  • Gayle
    Gayle

    Is his 'girlfriend' a JW? If not, his parents may try to witness to her, love bomb her & she eventually becomes a JW. This happens. 😞

  • StarTrekAngel
    StarTrekAngel

    I met with my friend at lunch today. We had a really good and long conversation. Once again, we are happy we are not alone and he also told me of others in this area. We can now have our own little apostafest. LOL

  • FayeDunaway
    FayeDunaway

    I always wonder what the waiting staff thinks of these lunch conversations. It must be weird hearing parts of ex witness lunch talks. It would be kind of fun being a waitress and sort of a detective, trying to figure out what people are talking about. I bet when they spend a long time at the next table, wiping it down, they are listening to every word :).

  • StarTrekAngel
    StarTrekAngel

    LOL... I am pretty sure they do. I have wondered the same thing before but not just about this. My wife and I have lunch together every day and have done so for over 10 years. We have narrowed down our choice of restaurants to a handful of places. Not only we recognize the waiting staff but we also see the regular patrons as well. We've been there in happy times as much as we've been there while really mad at each other and arguing. I figure they know a little piece of everyone's story.

  • James Mixon
    James Mixon

    StarTrekAngel: Be careful in your lunch conversations, they may think you are a terrorist.

    The waiting staff only hear," yes 144000 are guaranteed to be saved" , soon they

    believe blood will be in the streets, the latest info on how to handle chid abuse, and

    very soon it will only be them on earth".

    Or maybe they will think you are insane. But good for you, you found a ex-JW friend.....

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