When first attending the meetings, they believe they are being LOVED when in reality they are being love-bombed into submission.
Gopher hit the nail on the head........................
Wanting to be loved is the reason alot of people get involved and then hurt, it happens with romance and it happens with religion.
People make errors of judgement all the time, yet at that time they believe in their decision and choice. They buy the wrong colour dress, they pick the wrong partner, they start a uni course and then realise it's not really for them. People and circumstances also change , what was for them once is no longer any good. Time helps people see things more clearly because only with time do some things become manifest. Fact is we are always changing and learning. Most people become jws for wholesome reasons, believing and trusting.
So the type of people who become JWs are just ordinary, trusting people who for mostly good reasons, have made a wrong choice or were born in the wrong religion(because of parents' choices)...........bad timing or whatever. I became a JW because i believed in god,loved the bible and loved family. The JWs offered me all that, but only temporarily. When I worked it all out I left. Like choosing to do Law at uni then realising I really would be more suited doing medicine.
But making mistakes is only dumb if we don't learn from them. Most of us here are wiser for having been JWs.
cheers, bliss