Hi,
John 14:26:But the helper, the holy spirit, which the Father will send in my name, that one will teach you all things and bring back to your minds all the things I told you...So the Holy Spirit is a helper and teaches all things, like Jesus did. So in my mind...grieving the holy spirit is making the Jehovah and Jesus said....but the holy spirit is a force, so maybe if you stop the force from happening....then you grieving it...what about when they use the illustration that holy spirit is invisible like the wind...we don't see the wind but we see the affects of the wind blowing...trees, etc....so if we stop the wind from blowing...we grieving the force...ummm...
The Holy Spirit to me is that the spirit does what we can't do....holy spirit gives you the strength to do the impossible...that's why we have to ask for it...
The only time witnesses call on the Holy Spirit is when they comment on calling on the Holy Spirit...why I know, because most of the witnesses I know don't remember a darn thing...don't even remember the comment they made...
Since so many have a different opinion of what the holy spirit is or who....Who Knows????
Tor