I recently agreed, with pleasure, to help out a local family with some difficulties by collecting the 12 year old daughter from a village school a few miles away at about 15.30.
I am a 72 year old retired, with a car, and not doing much at all in this really crappy weather. so hardly an imposition.
For the last two days I received frantic phone calls at 15.45 from mum wondering where was everybody! I was happily reading, dozing and not doing a crossword in my sun lounge!
How feeble and embarrassing is that?!