The WTS has been "crying wolf" for such a long time. Its impact on young couples who made the decision to remain childless in This Old System Of Things™ goes back many, many decades.
Now that the WTS is giving elderly couples the toss at Bethel, who, indeed, is going to take care of them now?
If IVF is beyond your means, and puts your wife's health at risk unnecessarily, would you consider adoption?