Otwo, I was raised to believe that being an elder was my purpose. I did experience some jealousy from others because I was the youngest appointed elder in the District. So, some people thought I was wonderful while others would (rightfully) say how can this kid counsel me about my kids and my wife of many years when he has almost no experience?
Did You Feel Special Because You Were An Elder or Friend or Family Of?
by minimus 12 Replies latest jw friends
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Overrated
My family was well to do, unfortunately there was alot of elders and others wanting something from my dad. Talk about "green handshakes " where common in our Kingdumb Hall. If you had the means you got appointed or pretty much your way.
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Phizzy
I was never an Elder, and certainly never felt special because dad was an Elder, and so were a number of my family.
It was useful once, a guy had done something to my family, to one of my kids, that I could not let go. The Elders supported me 100%, I was right anyway, but I do think my connections added clout to my case.