the act of touching it, in order to decide whether to put it into the mouth, was in itself punishable by death
Does not say so in God’s Word. Adam was enjoined directly by God from eating the forbidden fruit but God did not tell Adam not to touch it. Also, the Bible does not say that God told Eve not to eat or touch the forbidden fruit. Eve wasn’t even created yet when God commanded Adam not to eat. How Eve was instructed not to eat it is interpretation, the Bible does not actually say but it seems Adam told her. Also, it was after Adam ate the forbidden fruit that the eyes of both of them were “opened” —and not at the time she touched or even ate the fruit. Bible says nothing about Hod punishing Adam or Evengor touching the fruit. The punishment was for eating the fruit not for touching it. Eve did not receive the death penalty either when God passed judgment on Eve. Death penalty was passed on Adam -returning to the dust. Eve was not created from the dust. She was formed from Adam’s rib. However, she also died and returned to the dust.
Also, JW cannot be DF for violating Bible principles such as marrying an unbeliever but for committing a DF offense and not repenting. —Although such JW would be looked down upon.