Ok, I forgot to mention I did tell him I wanted to post about this and got his "ok" before I posted it, then he wants to turn around and get embarressed LOL.
I am very glad he feels ok talking with me about these things and I just hope I don't do anything to change that.
My little boy told me "mom, ya you can tell them about me becoming a man", I almost cried at the thought of him not being "little" anymore.
Thank you all for your thoughts, and I will let soulweaver read this when he comes over again, he is back at his dad's cause I have to work, but I will let him read all of your comments that I feel are ok for him to read.
((((((((((everyone)))))))))))
Jes