JWTOM:
Correct about you and your PIMI wife talking about how wrong it is to have ‘orphans and widows donating money so that OTHERS can have health care, housing, spending money and in some cases international travel’.👍🏻
But, what you forgot to mention was that these OTHERS constantly knocked and criticized people (even some orphans and widows) for having a full time job or decent career. I was one of these people who got knocked.
As far as I AM concerned, anybody guilty of this is undeserving of getting money or charity of any sort from anybody!!