JW Pedophile Hits Close to Home

by Amazing 10 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • Amazing
    Amazing

    This is brief because family members have asked that I remain low-key for the present when on public forums regarding this specific case. I have provided greater details in a private forum.

    Many of you may recall my Justice Series on H20 where I dealt with the issue of pedophiles among JWs, often drawn from my experience as an Elder. While serving as an Elder I did object to the failure of Elders to report pedophiles to the Authorities. When I reported a case, the Elders found a way to make sure I was forcibly Disassociated.

    Sometime after these posts on H20, I became involved in trying to obtain certain help for victims or their families. Then, at the start of this year SilentLambs emerged by going public about molestation among JWs and the inappropriate directions coming from the WTS to their local representative Elders. I never imagined that this would hit so close to home.

    Recently, my Son-In-Law (SIL) [who is no longer a JW] learned that his JW dad was arrested for molesting a pre-teen girl who is also a relative. Sil’s dad is in his early 50s. He has been a JW for about 30 years. The fear in the family is that he may have molested others since it seems unlikely that a man at this age would just now be starting a new career as a pedophile. We do not know whether he has molested my grandchildren or other children, but the possibility is there. This will be determined during further investigation by the civil authorities. He has been restricted from having contact with my grandchildren for now. I am most concerned because my grandchildren at times stay with Sil’s dad. If he can molest one relative, there is little to convince me he will not try to molest my granddaughters, if he has not already done so.

    The local JW Elders have also become involved. I will not comment at this time about their actions and how these mesh with what the civil authorities are doing. But, I can say that IF the JW Elders knew about a prior pattern of behavior by Sil’s dad (and I know these Elders personally and their other cover-ups of molestation) then there is going to be hell to pay.

    I am currently in contact with the arresting Officer and the District Attorney who is prosecuting the case against Sil's dad. Before trail they plan many interviews with all family and close family friends to get a picture of whether other acts of abuse have taken place and whether there is any level of cover-up.

    In all the years of dealing with this issue during and after I was a JW Elder, I have never felt the level of anger as I do now. As noted above, while a JW, I did report a molester to the authorities, but all that happened was that the local Elders found a way to Disassociate me. I was angry then because children were being abused and the perpetrators were only 'Privately Reproved.'

    The time for justice has arrived. Whatever it takes, whether civil suit, criminal charges, and/or media attention, it is time to expose the WTS dirty laundry, and seek remedy. I will provide greater details to all of you as events develop. - Simply Amazing

  • somebody
    somebody

    Amazing,

    I remember your Justice posts on H20.

    In all the years of dealing with this issue during and after I was a JW Elder, I have never felt the level of anger as I do now.

    My heart breaks for what you must be feeling right now. I'm SO glad you got the authorities involved! You are not only protecting your own precious grandchildren from harm, but other children as well by speaking out for justice. God bless you and all your efforts and please stay strong.

    my e-mail address is available in my profile if you just need to vent your anger in a way that you can't on a public board, or with anyone else that you feel like you can't to. Please keep us informed as to what help is given to the young victim, and how she is doing. My thoughts will be with her,her parents, and your family. All of us here know what will be done with the perpetrator as far as the society's rules go.

    peace,
    somebody

  • sf
    sf

    {{{{{{{{SimplyHuggingYouAmazing}}}}}}}}

    Such courage turns me on...hahahaha, not that way. But I mean this is so intoxicating; the FACT that it's clearly EVIDENT NOW that indeed the tower walls are crumbling fast ("when the walls coming tumblin' down" by john mellencamp). And yes, it Simply changes EVERYTHING when it hits you right in your own Home.

    Take this hug above and wear it daily my friend and join us in yahoo voice chat sometime.

    Your friend in the fight and with much concern for your family members, Scallywagger ("wturls" on yahoo chat)

  • CornerStone
    CornerStone

    Hello Amazing,

    As incredible as it may seem, and based on my own personel observations and experiences, the org places it's utter contempt for civil authorities and it's own "image" ABOVE the safety and welfare of it's children.
    I'm sure this problem has existed for a long time. Why has it been only within the last few years that the org had mentioned this problem? ANSWER: Image control. When the Catholic Church started taking a lot of heat for their pedo problem among priest the org leaders wanted to take a "preemtive strike" at accusations against their image by saying that those found guilt of wrongdoing against a child could not have any special privileges, like being a pioneer or they could not be a MS or an elder.
    You know, I think the environment might be just right to sue a judicial committee for putting children "at risk" in the hall due to their knowledge of child sex offenders who sit right next to children every week.
    To be fair, everyone deserves a second chance. The problem the org has is how do they minimise the risk of a repeat offense and keep that person in the congregation. I don't see the org solving their problem anytime soon. Too many victims. Too many tears. So little justice.

    CornerStone

  • Jang
    Jang

    Amazing, my heart is with you all. I truly do know how you feel right now. Have been there - Done that. The rage inside is incredible ..... so channel it carefully!

    What can I say .... nothing will make it better ...... just remember there are people out here
    who really care and feel for you all.

    JanG

  • CPiolo
    CPiolo

    Amazing:

    My heart goes out to you and your family. I have been close to several people who have been molested as children and teens, and am well aware of the devastating effects it can have. I wish you luck in the pursuit of justice and punishment of the guilty.

    Peace and blessings,

    CPiolo

  • bluesapphire
    bluesapphire

    All I can say is Thank you for sharing. The time has come!

  • zev
    zev

    The time has come indeed!
    Amazing, i don't think i've read anything by you before this, but I am moved to say, your not alone. My own sister has recently informed me of molestation that went on many years ago. This "minister of god" a "ministerial servant" tryed on more than one occasion to molest her. She, like many victims of this type of action from people in these positions, became a silent lamb. This minister of god, was a person who I had stand up in my wedding party for me. This minister of god still holds a position in the j.w. "church" and one only can think, "how many others did he try this on"? I, amazing, am still "in" till I sort out what to do with myself, and how I can possibly share what I've learned with my wife. Though my sister "left" the truth{???} many years ago, I've asked her to join us here. Maybe she has put it behind her, but the scars are still there. I've also turned her to silentlambs site as well. This site, and the many fine people on it have been a great support to me in ways they will never know. Thank you all.

    __
    zev
    Sitting on the Wrong Side of the Fence Class

  • wasasister
    wasasister

    Amazing:
    Let me add my support to the others who already have. I join in applauding your courage and determination. Never shrink back. As SilentLambs once suggested to his Witness Mother-in-law, how does anyone know that this is not God's way of correcting His organization?? Would the elders be "fighters against God"?

    Although the events are sickening, at least we have reason to hope things will finally change. If even one child is protected because of our actions, it will be well worth it.

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Was

  • outnfree
    outnfree

    Amazing,

    I admire your courage and determination (past & present) and just wanted to add my wishes to the others' for a just resolution to this situation.

    My heart goes out to you and your family.

    outnfree

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