Ever feel like this? (page 5)

plmkrzy

Yeah...just look over to your left, under that pile of boxes in your living room

gasps...runs to put some clothes on

Oh yeah all the time! After you've been burned and then go a long period solo, it makes it even harder to get back up on the horse so to speak. And besides most of us still have that borg standard in our heads when looking for someone, makes it even harder.

DanTheMan

I too wonder if I'm ever going to find that special someone. I can't ever seem to get past that real intense initial phase of a relationship where there's fireworks going off and all that. Relationships mystify me, I don't get the whole pairing off thing that seems to come so naturally to most people.

Prisca

Sounds like there's a need for a Ex-JWs Singles site.....

Aztec. I know what it's like. Unfortunately there's not alot you can do about it, except maybe try to get to know new or different people, and perhaps expand upon the friendships you already have. Who knows, maybe amongst your platonic friends is a lover waiting for you to make the first step!!

greven

I say never but I would like to have a partner/friend at times

I often feel like this! I am quite a happy single at the moment and have never had any problems being on my own. However there are times I long for a partner/friend not just for the fysical stuff, but also to share your life with on a intimate level. I've seen your pic! Don't despare! You look pretty hot!

Arrange your life like you want it to be, not to what others think you want.

Greven

Golden Girl

I have had what you are talking about!...I really miss it. Someone to be there for you ..to hold you..talk to about your feelings...be one together..I really miss hubby but I have some wonderful memories...

I have 2 daughters..one was married at 18..she is working on her 3rd hubby!

The other married when she was 33...she was more mature and knew what she wanted. She was ready to settle down..but she played hot and heavy before that. She didn't even date until she was 18...(We were still jw's...) after we left the religion she became a Flight Attendant..so she partied a lot!..Now she is a wonderful wife and Mother.

The younger one..she will never settle down...

She has a 4 year old son from her 2nd marriage and when she finds someone they have to love her and her son!...

She didn't marry the second time until she was in her 30's. Well..she is in her 40's now..and guys still fall all over her!...She has 2 boyfriends..one keeps hanging around...So I guess he really cares. But he also has a 4 year old son..and sometimes they cause big problems between them. He really loves his son and she really loves her son..and he really loves his dog and she ...tolerates his dog! (He is a huge boxer that likes to knock her son down) .. So they have problems to work out before any commitments.

I told her to wait until they are grown..and then have a steady relationship!..

You are a very beautiful and warm and caring person!...Mr right WILL come along when you least expect it!..Cupid does exist!..

HUGS....Snoozy...

Jourles

Well Azzy, if you believe that opposites attract, find a guy who:

Is a die-hard Avs fan
Hates politics
Can't stand Heavy Metal and Rap
Loves the freezing weather and will never move to a warmer climate
Is interested in what JW's really have to say

Those few items should get you started on your quest.

expatbrit

Prophets testicles! You are already wife no. 4, oh camel of the lakes! What more could any woman want, by Allah?!?!

Expatbrit

Xena

I think I might know how you feel Aztec....while I enjoy some of the aspects of being single...no tug of war over the remote...and all the hot water I could ever want..I do miss having someone to share with...sunsets...jokes...a shoulder to cry on....friends can be there for you, but it's not quite the same is it?

*sigh*

pettygrudger

(((Aztec))) With all the changes in your life recently, its not suprising that you're feeling the way you are. Hang in there girl, you're gonna be alright. And whatever you do, don't latch on to someone because you're lonely - believe me - that's the worst reason (course you probably already knew that - but some of us had to learn the hard way! )

And when you do meet Mr. Right, he has alot more inspectors to go through than just Rayzorblade - leave it to me - I'm an expert on this stuff (just ask you know who's - and I have more references if you need them!).

Love Ya!

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