Great points Xanthippe!
They are too invested to even allow themselves to think outside of the Jw bubble mindset.
They need us to be the "baddies". Or it makes their whole life a waste!
PE showed us all how to handle it. Be kind, polite and normal. Show by our niceness, that we are happy and enjoying our life. Rouse their curiousity about how good life can be on the outside.