Micheal, I wonder how it has been since you posted this thread?
My guess, it's not as easy as one would think.
Remember: closer the ex-JWs are to Bethel (Georgetown, ON.) the more spiritual they are (not my quote); more JW thinking still working overtime with many of them, paranoid and still playing BY THEIR RULES. The Toronto ex-JWs are an interesting lot to put it mildly.
If you've met any of them: congratulations!! You deserve a medal.
There are a few really cool ones, and a few that'll meet-up with you regardless of any on-line meet-up forum or not. Some will state that it's not necessary to have a meet-up on-line; good luck if you meet even them. Scared, paranoid, and still playing the JW game IMHO.
A couple of us are heading to the very OUT of the WTS Detroit group, at the end of this month.
If you are interested, please contact me via PM: you know you'll hear from me/us, but you'll actually SEE us in-person. No scardy-cats with us.
Thanks for your post.
Best wishes.
Rayzorblade
PS: PM iiz2cool if you wish too, coz he IS TOO COOL!