Man, I just have to jump in here!! This is great. I never did dress conservatively at least since about 1994. That is when I started to build some self-esteem and get back into feeling good about myself.
I'll never forget after the ex left me, the elders called me into the back room and said since I no longer had a husband they would act in his place. I was like "What"? I had seen one of the elder's wives elbowing her husband that day at the meeting looking at me and laughing. I didn't know what in the world was going on. It seems she had a problem with my sweater being to low. They counseled me on suggestive clothing and drawing improper attention to myself. What ever. I went out and bought a spandex black shirt really low cut and started wearing it with my jeans!! Made me feel lot's better.
Wendy,
Get your butt up here. I have been kicking the tatoo thing around for awhile. Chicken I guess. There is a great artist seven miles from here. One of the girls I studied with has nine tatoos and she swears by him. Let's go. Angharad get the next flight over there is courage in groups!!!
TW