Yep...my mother in law is officially reinstated. They made her wait one SOLID year before they "allowed" her to join their twisted ranks again. And she called here at 11:30 at night probably after going out and celebrating it after the meeting to tell her son about it. Of course shes thrilled because she now has full access to all her jw kids and grandkids again. And Im....decidedly out of her life once again. I heard my husband say "Thats good to hear Sister F...." but he was reserved about it. He doesnt speak to her much which I find odd it being his mother and all. Perhaps he isnt buying that she is really "back" and knows as we all do this is just an act to get her estranged JW Elder husband back and her JW kids. Made me sick. My JW sister in law is having her 5th child in two weeks, a girl after four boys..and of course I wasnt invited to the shower. But she didnt invite my daughter EITHER which I think really sucked. Shes an innocent in all this and loves her aunt. Shes 12 years old..no reason in hell she shouldnt have been invited. So my nonJW sister in law is TAKING her and we are buying GIFTS for that baby...and I hope it heaps firey coals on ALL their self righteous heads! She will probably throw my gifts out as demonized.
My mother in law will be here on Aug 9 in anticipation of the birth, and I plan on being invisible. I know she is going to try to force herself on me....thats what she always did with her JW kids when she was DAd for three years...tried to MAKE them talk to her MAKE them love her MAKE them go against their beliefs...and me? I was told I would have to "respect her religion and she wont shun me"...so I told her I dont want to ever see her again because NOBODY has a right to dictate to me what I cannot do or say. ESPECIALLY some freakin JW.
My little boy however who is 8...is reciting JW propaganda and its scaring the hell outta me. He told his 4 year old cousin that his grandfather would be resurrected to a paradise earth and would live forever, and that people were not meant to die...shitski!!! 8 year olds DONT TALK LIKE THAT. I said hey..you sound like a JW. He replied. well DUH mom i AM one!! Ohhhhhmmmyygodddd! I have to seriously do some intervention here, as I can see Daddy Dearest has been getting to him. Tho I dont see it. Its obviously happening.
Im afraid that somehow my JW husband will trick the kids into baptism...making promises to them and promising rewards to them..like if you get baptized then I will take you to Disneyworld...because they dont understand the far reaching consequences.
And I actually gave up being an active apostate online here for this man...to preserve this marriage. Gave up my screen name Id had since 1996 and got rid of all my anti literature.....and what has he given up? Jack shit. God I hate this organization. Hate it with every breath I take.