My greatest happiness in all this is that we all made it out of the cult together.
Never underestimate the power of love, the power of patience, and the ability that each person has to think for oneself, regardless of formal education.
EdenOne
by EdenOne 67 Replies latest jw experiences
My greatest happiness in all this is that we all made it out of the cult together.
Never underestimate the power of love, the power of patience, and the ability that each person has to think for oneself, regardless of formal education.
EdenOne
Rebel8
Question--isn't attendance compulsory and jws are not exempt? From <<that link, I see nothing objectionable to jw beliefs. You just show up and they tell you all about being in the military? What am I missing?
Attendance to the DDN is mandatory by law but one can be exempt of it by applying to conscientious objector status. All JW kids are compelled to apply for it. The drawback: You won't be able to hold a position as a public worker in the future. My son wasn't willing to jeopardize his future career, so he didn't apply. Thus it was considered a willful disassociation - even if it's not military service, just a 'sales pitch' from the military.
EdenOne
Paraben! Enjoy your Liberdade!
Freedom at last!
"...three years ago". Did your son start having doubts before you did?
Congratulations on being free!
Congratulations! I hope to be there soon, together with my family. You have shown me a good example.
So awesome! My wife and I DA'd last September. Glad to see three more out. Life is about to get a lot better for you all of you. Celebrate your freedom and that weight that has been lifted. You can breathe free now.
Never a JW
"...three years ago". Did your son start having doubts before you did?"
No, I started first to investigate TTATT around 2011; when I noticed that my son was experiencing discomfort with the JW system, i encouraged him to trail his own way and make his own decisions, and I would have his back, no matter what. Some time after this, he took his position before I did (at 16), by refusing to go to the meetings and FS anymore.
EdenOne
Wish you the best in your freedom from these clowns, I'm betting more will follow you out soon.
Congratulations! I join Simon in raising a glass to you all. I salute your family's courage and wisdom.