miss. , I want to sympathize with you greatly, and everyone else for that matter,
that has a [adult] child that has basically shunned or has an attitude about them.
there are few greater emotional pains than to have your own flesh and blood turn on you, and then to have them convince others to share that warped view.
I know the pain, and it is difficult to live with every day. it eats at your soul. It breaks your spirit. even if you have the opportunity to discuss things and it seems to be ok, you'll always question their intentions.
You permanently live in doubt.
it comes to a point where you find joy in nothing at all , your simply existing for the benefit of others.
The very fact that someone who claims to love us, can treat us in such hurtful ways, is proof that their conscience and thinking ability has been altered.
Id like to think normally our own children or close family wouldnt turn against us unless they were mercilessly convinced of something.
and I bet they still have a hard time still accepting that thought process. and then it eats at them.
You however are seeing the obvious. And to question things, shows your finally reasoning on you own.
don't turn your back on it.