Me, me, me, me. Well, my marriage is hanging by a thread until I find a job with insurance which I think is damned decent of my soon to be ex.
However, some women whom you might be interested in putting on the full court press with a little bit down the road might not be constitutionally able to tolerate such an arrangement. Has something to do with a complete lack of self confidence I think. Others can look at the reality of that insurance situation and not give your soon to be ex a second thought except to say "how nice of her".
You're better off without the ones who are afraid of it.